Saturday, April 20, 2013

Something You Control.


This week was my first week back at school in a long time, to say the lest it was more than stressful. I received loads of homework, and realize, after falling asleep everyday in two out of my three classes, I wasn't quite ready to be back. Even though it was so nice to get back to seeing my friends and going to rehearsals. With my play opening on Wednesday, cheer tryouts coming up, and my heaps and heaps of homework my stress level has been extremely high. Sorry for not posting all week, I was trying to get caught back up.
                I was asked to define trust the other day. How can you define something that has various meanings? When you are little you trust your parents when they told you that Santa Claus was real, you trusted your friends wouldn't break a pinky promise. When you got older you trusted your teachers would be fair with grades and teach you what you needed to know. When you are in a play, competition or a performance you trust your cast or your team, will know their material. When you get engaged you trust the person will be faithful to you. You put trust in others and they put it in you. Your parents trust you will be honest with them. Your friends trust you will be there for them. Your teachers trust you will do your best. Your coaches and team mates trust you will put in your all. Trust is easy to lose, hard to get, and never fully regained. In the dictionary trust is described as a, ‘Firm belief in the reliability, trust, ability, or strength of someone or something.' In its own definition is uses the word it is attempting to describe. Trust is different for every person an experience with it. They are some people who you have no resin not to trust, and you can't get yourself to trust them. There are the people who have given you no reason to trust them, and you have no problem open wholly to them. Then there are the people who try to gain our trust never the less as soon as they receive it, and proceed to shatter it seconds later. There are people who keep your trust forever even after the friendship has ended. There are people who can trust everyone with no resin, and some people who can trust no one. I think it's important to be able to trust some people, to know who is right to trust. To not give up trust after its been broken with one person. To be able to trust someone is to have faith in them, to be able to rely on that person for anything, to feel safe and secure with them.  The easiest way to lose the trust of someone is to lie to them. Never lie to someone you trust, never trust someone who lies. Trust is also a weakness, if you trust too much you become dependent, desperate for that person. If you give too much trust you give that person a chance to leave blemishes on our heart. If you trust the wrong person they can soon have control over you. Trust, is one of the words that has a different meaning to everyone the same as love, happiness, successes all words defended differently for person to person. Trust; a weakness, a strength, a connection, something you control.

“I've learned that it takes years 
to build up trust, and it only takes 
suspicion, not proof, to destroy it.”
- Erica 

“If you say you can trust someone then you are admitting to something even greater then love. Trust involves all your thoughts and emotions to be given to someone so they can have. Trusting someone is knowing that you can be hurt so bad that none can even know. This is why trust is a word of great power.”
- Unknown


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